Nov 21, 2019 |
By Susan Anderson
For Maggie Finley, the best part of being a Bona Buddy mentor is the chance to be a positive influence in someone’s life.
“Seeing a child light up and be excited is absolutely amazing,” she said.
Finley has taught her buddy how to hula hoop, watched her experience a nature hike for the first time and shared giggles with her over ice cream in Hickey
Another highlight has been receiving a crayon drawing as a thank-you from her buddy.
“It’s not just the kids we’re mentoring who benefit from the experience, but the students who serve as mentors, too,” Finley noted.
A senior strategic communication major from Long Island, New York, Finley joined St. Bonaventure University’s Bona Buddies program last year.
“I’d always wanted to do it. Especially after coming back to Bona’s from working at Camp Nashoba North in Maine all summer,” she said. “I enjoy the interaction with kids. It lets you be a good role model and just have fun.”
Founded in 1975, Bona Buddies is a youth mentoring program where one-to-one relationships are built between Bona students and local children, ages five to 15.
The program aims to boost confidence and encourage children to pursue their dreams, provide parents with a network of support, and give volunteers the chance to make a difference in a young person’s life.
There are 73 pairs of Bona Buddies and mentors currently involved with the program. Each week, student mentors spend an hour of free time with their buddy, helping with homework, playing games and enjoying healthy snacks of fruits and vegetables.
That first hour is really just one-on-one time with your buddy,” said Finley. “Some of the children come from big families while others have parents who work a lot, so giving them the chance to be the main focus is important.”
The second hour is devoted to special activities provided by various campus groups such as the Environmental Club hosting a hike
along the Allegheny River Valley Trail, she said. Other participants include the Regina A. Quick Center for the Arts, the Richter Recreation Center, the School of Education, and various club sports athletes who share tips about each sport.
This year, to raise money and awareness for Bona Buddies and other service programs, the Franciscan Center for Social Concern will host #GivingTuesdayatBonas, a one-day fundraising event on Dec. 3.
The community is invited to visit www.sbu.edu/GivingTuesdayatBonas now through Tuesday, Dec. 3, to donate and use #GivingTuesdayatBonas on all social media channels to help spread the word.
For Finley, being part of Bona Buddies allows her to make a difference — for a lifetime.
“I want people to know that a gift for Bona Buddies not only provides these kids with great opportunities, but is also doing that for the students who serve as mentors,” she said. “You’re allowing us to be good role models and
you’re helping each of us make a huge impact on a child.”
About the University: The nation’s first Franciscan university, St. Bonaventure University is a community committed to transforming the lives of our students inside and outside the classroom, inspiring in them a lifelong commitment to service
and citizenship. In 2019, St. Bonaventure was named the #1 regional university value in New York and #2 in the North by U.S. News and World Report.